Success is the ONLY Revenge
If you continue to blame or use other people for the reason you are not where you want to be in life, you are giving away your power. Bad things happen to good people and sometimes you end up as a product of environmental or relational failure. If you allow those people and those events to stand in the way of who you can become, they win. As you work silently toward your goal of getting better, those people shrink. As you succeed, they become irrelevant. Your skills, your knowledge, the character strengths you develop, no one can take those away from you. Stop reliving past hurts, stop giving your precious attention to past grievances. The only way to move on is to develop yourself and be proud of who you become in the process.